(And How to Heal During This Time)
From the onset, it is important to note that twin flames are rare. The major reason for finding your twin flame is for growth and healing. However, not everyone always finds their “twin.”
Thus, it is rare to find someone who reflects, or mirrors, you in every way. Mirroring means that you seem like you are the same person. In this relationship there is a transparency that you find nowhere else.
In many instances, therefore, it is for that very reason that the two souls can clash. They know each other's weaknesses and can get irritated by them. This is often when twin flame separation happens.
One of the things we can explore here is the reasons for why twin flame separation happens. In addition, we can also look at how they can heal during this time.
Why Does Twin Flame Separation Happen?
1. Transparency May be a Cause
The unique reason why twin flames are drawn to each other is that they see the other reflected as if in a mirror. Seeing each other’s reflection is one reason that can cause separation.
The mirror reflects all or most flaws, and they cannot hide anything from each other. This transparency is also a result of how at ease they are with each other.
In this authentic relationship, they bare their souls to each other. This can lead to friction, especially regarding negative traits.
2. When Toxicity Sets In
Transparency can therefore lead to toxicity. This is especially true if the learning curve is extremely slow. Remember, twin flames need to grow as well as teach each other.
As time passes and learning/new experiences start to slow or fade there can be disagreements between couples - sometimes this can lead to separation. It's important to remain positive in your outlook and understand occasionally times like this will occur.
3. Imbalance in the Relationship
Twin flames are almost the same person and are in sync with each other. They have the same souls, which reflects positive as well as negative aspects in their lives.
An imbalance can occur that will necessitate or force separation. The imbalance may be that one of the souls has deeper issues to solve. It may be necessary for them to distance themselves from their twin flame in order to find harmony again.
4. When the Relationship Started
We are aware that this magical relationship can occur at any time. A chance meeting with a deep and powerful connection can be life-changing.
However, even then, the timing has to be right. If your twin flame still has issues to work through, such as trauma, heartbreak, or other issues, this might be the wrong time for the relationship.
This will affect the balance or cause toxicity, as mentioned above. Starting a relationship with your twin flame when you are out of sync may lead to separation.
A Few More Aspects that May Lead to Separation
Some general aspects that may lead to twin flame separation are:
● The relationship becomes volatile. This means that the arguments become more prevalent, severe, and intense.
● Lack (or total absence) of communication is an indication that there might be a buildup to separation. One of the individuals may distance themselves from the other and avoid any contact.
● Twin flames dream of each other and are often telepathically connected. When this begins to wane, there is an indication that they may separate.
● Feeling their presence can accompany the telepathic connection. If the feeling of experiencing their presence becomes less, the time for separation may be close.
These are just a few aspects that may indicate that an imminent separation may occur.
How Can Twin Flames Heal from Separation?
It is heartbreaking if these two souls separate. It is devastating because they are so immensely and deeply connected. It is therefore important to help them heal from such a separation. Here are a few ways in which twin flames can heal.
1. Gain Insight and Understanding of Why the Separation Happened
All relationships are different, and twin flames therefore need to analyze their specific situation. It is important to understand the steps that led to the separation.
The steps will clearly show what went wrong and where it went wrong. Because it is your twin soul, seeing where and what the issues were might be easier.
2. Acceptance of the Separation
Once there is an understanding of the reasons, you will be able to accept the situation a lot better. You will be able to move forward, working on improving yourself.
Becoming the best, you can be will improve the relationship should you get back together again.
3. The Better You
In the absence of your “twin,” you can take the time to improve yourself. A better you will ensure a relationship that will be that much deeper and more secure in the end.
You should focus on the parts that your analysis indicated as problematic. Most of the issues will be spiritual, emotional, and even mental. Focus on improving yourself overall.
4. Healing from the Grief
Grief is part of most severed relationships, especially the ones that have deep connections, such as twin flames. It is therefore important to pay attention to healing your grief.
You have to remember that the separation teared out your soul. Your grief may be extremely severe. You need to find ways to deal with it and not just cope.
There are several ways, such as:
● Keeping a journal.
● Doing things that you always wanted to do (on your bucket list).
● Get counseling to help you over the hurdle.
● Exercise, meditate, or do yoga.
● Most importantly, as we already mentioned, work on yourself to improve the areas your twin flame highlighted.
Conclusion
Separation in any relationship can be extremely painful. However, it can be more severe for twin flames, as there is a sense of divine intervention.
It can be devastating if things do not work out according to plan. Separation can happen for various reasons. Here we only touched on a few of the reasons why separation happens and how to heal during this time.
